How to Know God Better: Finding Him in the Secret Place


What if knowing God isn’t about having all the answers—but about drawing closer to Him, one
quiet moment at a time?
The Bible presents what seems like a contradiction when it comes to knowing God. On one
hand, the prophet declares:
“Let him who glories glory in this, that he understands and knows Me.” (Jeremiah
9:24)
Yet elsewhere we read:
“For My thoughts are not your thoughts, Nor are your ways My ways,” says the
Lord. (Isaiah 55:8–9)
In the New Testament, the apostle Paul echoes this mystery:
“Oh, the depth of the riches both of the wisdom and knowledge of God! How
unsearchable are His judgments and His ways past finding out.” (Romans
11:33–34)
But then the apostle John confidently writes:
“The Son of God has come and has given us understanding, that we may know Him
who is true.” (1 John 5:20)
So which is it? Can we know God—or not?
Knowing God…But Only in Part
The answer is both yes and no.
Yes, we can truly know God. But no, we will never fully comprehend Him in this life. God is
infinite, and we are not.
As it says in 1 Corinthians 13:
“For we know in part… now I know in part, but then I shall know just as I also am
known.”
Right now, our understanding is partial. But one day, in eternity, we will know Him more fully.
Until then, knowing God is not a destination—it’s a lifelong journey.
The Secret Place: Where Relationship Grows

One of the most powerful ways to grow in knowing God is by spending intentional, quiet time
with Him.
Life is loud. It moves fast. We are constantly surrounded by noise, distractions, and demands.
That’s why Jesus gave this invitation:
“When you pray, go into your room, and when you have shut your door, pray to your
Father who is in the secret place.” (Matthew 6:6)
Notice this: the Father is in the secret place.
If we want to know Him better, we have to meet Him there.
Learning to Listen
Spending time with God isn’t just about speaking—it’s also about listening.
We can ask Him questions, pour out our hearts, and bring Him our thoughts and concerns. Over
time, we begin to recognize His voice more clearly—primarily through His Word, through quiet
conviction, and through the steady growth of wisdom in our lives.
This keeps our relationship with Him grounded and genuine.
An Example of a Seeking Heart
George Washington Carver, a brilliant scientist and inventor, understood the value of quiet time
with God. He once said:
“Only alone can I draw close enough to God to discover His secrets.”
He made it a habit to rise early and spend time in prayer, often in nature, asking God for insight
and direction.
A Place of Intimacy
Psalm 25:14 beautifully describes this kind of relationship:
“There’s a private place reserved for the lovers of God, where they sit near Him and
receive the revelation-secrets of His promises.”
The Hebrew idea behind “secret” also carries the meaning of close, intimate conversation—like
trusted friends sitting together.
This is what God invites us into.
Growing Closer, Day by Day

Growing closer to God requires:
● Intentional time
● Honest communication
● A willingness to open our hearts
We won’t learn everything about Him overnight—or even in a lifetime. But as we consistently
spend time with Him, we will come to know Him more deeply.
And that changes everything.

🔹 Personal Reflection Questions

  1. What distractions most often keep me from spending quiet time with God?
  2. When was the last time I intentionally sat in silence and listened for God’s direction?
  3. How can I make the “secret place” a consistent part of my daily routine?
  4. In what ways has God already revealed Himself to me through Scripture or experience?
  5. What is one step I can take this week to deepen my relationship with God?

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Chet Fahrmeier

After full time pastoral ministry for over 45 years, I am embarking on a journey which has the same message–but different format. Pen and Sword Ministry exists to be a voice in the wilderness, speaking out to prepare the way of the Lord. 

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